What guys know
Recently a kind reader let me know that whenever she clicks on our URL she is directed to a Bible Study site. If she manually types in irisheyesknitters.blogspot.com, she gets the blog. I do not know why this is happening. Maybe I am supposed to start going to a Bible study group. I have never been to a Bible study group. I think I was invited to one once.
I don't understand the workings of the internet as much as others. (understatement) I enjoy blogging, (obviously) and use Blogspot because it is free and easy enough for me to post successfully.
I spent some time wondering how in the world this link happened. I was thinking of renaming the blog. The fear of losing my loyal readers (all 4 or 5 of you!) was discouraging. What if you weren't redirected? The blog name isn't really user friendly anyhow. No one can ever remember it. No one posts but me and my eyes are half Hungarian you know by now. I was pondering something clever and easy to remember. Something like, tirednurseknits. My nurse friends might remember that one.
Anyhow, I asked the most computer savvy folks in the house, the young adults, that is, and zach immediately responded : "Maybe it's her computer mom."
Why is it that I always default to MY fault? Guys don't do this I've noticed. They carry that can of "blame away" we tease about. Couldn't be my fault. That's the last place they consider. Why is it always the first place I (dare I say we?) consider.
Who teaches guys this? I need some of this.
Does anyone else have this Bible study issue when they try to get to my blog. Let me know. Enlighten me. Do the guys in your life have this natural great defense too?
Comments
Are you going to be at GROUP tonight? :)
The not my fault trait is a geeneral guy thing. They don't need to be taught it, it is inherited for thousands of years I am sure.
Interesting point you brought up about the differences between male and female. I think that it is because of our innate (or inbred or society taught) need to be the 'nurturers'. Rather than bring pain, fault or guilt onto others we must do so to ourselves in an effort to preserve and hence nurture those around us. Sigh. It is a difficult cross to bear at times but, it is what it is and we must all try very hard to remind ourselves that we need to nurture OURSELVES as well.